Kelly Jo Dowd, a cancer-stricken mother whose dream of seeing
her teen daughter Dakoda play in an LPGA event was realized last
spring, has died. She was 42.
She spent years battling breast cancer, which her family said
spread to her bones and liver, and then to her brain in the final
months of her life. She died Thursday night at her home in Palm
Harbor, Fla., a family spokesman said.
Her death came just over a year after seeing her daughter play
in the Ginn Open in Reunion, Fla., when Dakoda, then 13, and her
family went public with their story, even knowing Kelly Jo's
death was expected. Shortly before the tournament, the family was
told Kelly Jo would have only a few months to live.
"She'll die knowing that she was loved," Dakoda
said in an interview last year with The Associated Press.
Earlier this month, Dakoda, now 14, failed to advance in
qualifying for the U.S. Women's Open, clearly distracted by her
mother's rapidly failing health.
"It's been so hard," Dakoda said last month,
"and my mom fought even harder."
Dakoda Dowd, one of the nation's top-ranked junior golfers,
was invited to play in the 2006 tournament by Ginn Resorts
president and CEO Bobby Ginn, who lauded the Dowds Friday as
"a special family whose story touched a nation."
"Kelly Jo Dowd inspired us all with her strength, courage
and tireless efforts to educate both women and men about breast
cancer, the disease that would eventually take her life," Ginn
said. "Her zest for life and boundless enthusiasm in spite of
her condition lifted countless spirits and should serve as a
reminder to focus on what is truly important in life."
Dowd shot a 2-over par 74 on the first day, beating a number of
major-championship winners, then shot 82 in the second round and
missed the cut.
"I'm prouder today than I was yesterday that my
daughter has the courage and strength to play with these LPGA
professionals," Kelly Jo said after that tournament. "And
I feel great right now. I feel great. My dream came true out
here."
The Dowd family chose to tell their story with hopes that Kelly
Jo's plight _ she ignored a lump for several months before
being diagnosed with breast cancer _ would be a strong reminder
that women should be vigilant in doing self-exams and getting
checked regularly.
"I did something pretty stupid," Kelly Jo said in a
2006 interview with the AP. "And the only way that I can let
myself feel better about it is if I know that people can learn from
our situation."
Plus, the family spent much time trying to raise money for
groups like MakingMemories.org, which grants wishes to people who
have been diagnosed with terminal breast cancer.
A memorial service will be held Tuesday at Sylvan Abbey Funeral
Home in Clearwater, Fla.
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